This rewrites the audio decode loop to some degree. Audio filters don't
do refcounted frames yet, so af.c contains a hacky "emulation".
Remove some of the weird heuristic-heavy code in dec_audio.c. Instead of
estimating how much audio we need to filter, we always filter full
frames. Maybe this should be adjusted later: in case filtering increases
the volume of the audio data, we should try not to buffer too much
filter output by reducing the input that is fed at once.
For ad_spdif.c and ad_mpg123.c, we don't avoid extra copying yet - it
doesn't seem worth the trouble.